How do you look to your friends, when you get mad on THEM? What made you angry or mad about them? Is that an error connection between both of you? Do you and your friends have good manners? Some of my friends have kindly commented about this topic. 67% of my friends said they don’t care about manners in their friendship. Whaoo~how sweet when I heard that. But, it has their problems too. 33% of my friends really did manners whatever they are. Well, I am don’t come from a rich family. Just middle-class-family =)
But my parents’ and a lot of elder taught me all about manners. I am here to say Thank You to THEM. Seriously, I’d teach my friends sometime. Actually I am not teaching, I just advices them and remind them. So “The Error Connection”. There is a solution to improving your communication and building better healthier relationship , Yes it is “ Be yourself , Trust yourself and accept every single family members’ comments and friends’ comments ” . “CONNECTION” means every relations Married Couples, Dating Couples, Parents and Children, Teachers and Students, Office Workers, Management and Staff and also Business to Business. Firstly, remember the more rapport you have with somebody, the stronger your connection with that person. The less rapport you have with someone or when the rapport is broken the weaker your connection is with that person. =) Most human‘re flexible communicator. Being flexible in your life, it helps you being flexible in your communication and also connects with others quickly and easily. Please everyone, do not judge someone because their looks. We’re all the same, we were created by God. Second, if you are going to act like someone to treat your new friends. The friendship won’t be longer and it won’t be fun. = (Usually a good rapport build as long as you can, know each other deeply and clearly =) How long to maintain it? Well, as I said don’t act just be your own self with care and nurturing, Fever ~ How long to break it? Only second!!! Yes! Build for sometimes years but only second to break it. Indeed, it is very easily. Lastly, how long to repair it? Sometimes or maybe NEVER.
Well, let’s start the manners part. =) Why did good manners give you a bright and happiness life? Because polite people won’t tell you, you’re rude. They will just look down at you and give you a mocking smile. You will feel uncomfortable if you’re a Social Light. If you didn’t discover that. Seriously, you really need a morel class. =) How ridiculous when you didn’t realize that the whole world are laughing beside you, and it is laugh ABOUT YOU!!
I prefer keep manners to treat every of my friends. =)
And the last thing, we should've solve the problem on the day when the problem appear. Don't wait for tomorrow. If not it would be tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow =O
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